Who Expresses Love First: The easier it is to love, the more difficult it is to express that love. When it comes to expressing, then most of the people start getting nervous thinking about the reactions of the person in front, lest he feel bad or may he stop talking or may he take out the wrong meaning. The feeling of love sometimes awakens in everyone's mind. But not everyone can express it. Now the question arises that who is at the forefront of expressing love? Is the girl the first to express her love or the boy? Let's know...
Art Markman, a psychologist in Austin, says that after saying 'I love you', most people hold back for fear of not getting a positive response from the front. It is generally believed that girls are the first to express their love. Although in some studies it has been claimed that most of the time men are the first to express love. One reason for this could be that men feel love first.
What does research say?
According to a research published in The Journal of Social Psychology in the year 2011, after spending a few weeks with a woman, a feeling of love starts developing in men. While this does not happen with women. It takes a little longer for them to realize the truth of love. In a 2011 study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, it was said that if men say 'I love you' to women before having sex, it means that they want to gain the trust of their female friend, so that The way to establish sexual relations can be cleared. Many times men do not even realize that there is a desire to have sex behind the feeling of love growing inside their mind.
Haste of men creates fear in women
When women take 'I love you' from a man at the very beginning of a relationship, they start to feel that the feeling of love in the man's mind is just because of the desire to have sex. When a man continues to express love to his female friend even after coitus, then women are most happy with it. While listening to 'I love you' before intercourse, they find it a bit awkward, especially when men are in a hurry to say it.
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