The first year of married life is very special for those who live a married life. Because during this time everything is new. Not only this, we are understanding the partner and his family, mannerisms and other things. People feel ashamed of each other because of the newness in the relationship. Therefore, in the first year of the relationship, partners do many such things which sometimes become a reason for regret. Both girls and boys take such decisions which become a cause of trouble for them in the relationship in the long run.
Mistakes like agreeing with your partner can land you in trouble. Let us tell you which steps you should not take even by mistake in the first year of marriage or which you should think carefully about first.
presence of partner
It has been a long standing tradition in India that the wife should listen and obey everything her husband says. Even though times have changed now, this still happens in rural areas. Don't make the mistake of ignoring your husband even by mistake. Because it is possible that your husband will dominate you throughout your life.
fight with in-laws
It is common to have squabbles or small fights in a relationship, but do not make the mistake of getting into trouble with your in-laws in the beginning of your marriage. Doing this can tarnish your image and you may have to pay for it throughout your life. This kind of behavior can cause unrest in the house. This kind of mistake can weaken the bond between husband and wife.
do all the work yourself
After marriage, most of the girls do all the work themselves to please their in-laws and husband. It is good to understand the responsibilities and take them up but it is wrong to take the entire burden on yourself. This is a mistake because it is possible that in future also all the household work may be imposed on you. Take help of husband and family members also in household chores.
don't save money
Women or men spend to achieve every happiness after marriage. Pockets become loose due to excessive expenditure. You may have to bear the consequences of lack of savings. Therefore, do your personal savings.
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