Only after marriage the burden on the girl to maintain new relationships increases. He has to understand and maintain every relationship between new people. Mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother-in-law and sister-in-law are in relationships, there is an age difference, so it takes time to adjust with them, but friendship with sister-in-law happens faster.
If your relationship with your sister-in-law is good then it does not take much time for you to maintain balance in your in-laws, but if your relationship with your sister-in-law is not good then it becomes difficult for you to live with your in-laws. This lovely daughter of the house can make your in-laws' house both heaven and hell for you. It depends on how the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law is.
After marriage, if the sister-in-law starts getting love from her in-laws, sometimes the sister-in-law does not like it. Insecurity starts increasing within them. Their love is shared, due to which a feeling of insecurity starts arising in their mind. Thus, the sister-in-law becomes jealous of her sister-in-law and gradually starts doing things which either put her in trouble or spoil her mood.
Due to jealousy, sister-in-law informs sister-in-law. So the difficulties increase. If the sister-in-law does this work for her sister-in-law, then the daughter-in-law faces difficulty even breathing in her in-laws' house. Even if he gives 100 percent to everything, everyone only sees shortcomings and mistakes.
If she finds a condescending sister-in-law who considers herself superior and better than the daughter-in-law of the house, then she does not miss any opportunity in which she can humiliate her. Be it a choice of clothes or an opinion, she doesn't value them, as if they have no importance. She doesn't even shy away from embarrassing them in front of others.
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